80 Tips to saving THOUSANDS of dollars on your wedding!

Updated: Jan 10

Want to have the wedding of your dreams without going into major debt? With proper planning, it’s totally possible. Yes, we know many of you have been planning this event in your head for years. Okay, maybe since childhood. But there are ways to get what you want without letting the budget get way out of hand.

Over the years, Jake and I have learned a lot from our wonderful clients about how they saved money and cut creative corners to afford their must have list. We compiled a pretty long list to help guide you along your wedding planning process. These 80 helpful money-saving wedding tips will help you stretch your big-day budget in order to help you afford the very best of what matters most!

A great place to start is with a list. Prioritize your needs versus wants, make a plan — and stick to it. At the end of the day, what matters most is that you’re happy and relaxed, and not stressed over money.

 –  General  –

1. Want vs. NEED Make a list of the ‘must haves’ and ‘would like to haves’ – it seems simple but it can be much easier to start eliminating costs when it’s all written down. What facets of your wedding are most important to you? Focus on areas that make your heart go pitter-patter, and you’ll feel okay about skimping on the rest.

2. Don’t Get Carried Away With The Little Extras Don’t get carried away with extras –    do you really need a sweet table, dessert bar, photo booth, individual place cards, etc etc? More often than not it’s only you and your partner who will notice the little extras. Saving that money will allow you to spend it for your must haves like high-end wedding photography, the perfect wedding band that is a little out of your budget, or extra venue time for your reception.

3. Research. Research. Research. Not only will research find you the perfect venue, vendors and catering for your special day, it will also help you score great deals and save money for your must-need wedding items such as your professional wedding photography or maybe that dream honeymoon!

4. DIY what you can Be realistic about what to DIY, and what not to DIY. Sometimes, having to get all the materials yourself and spending the time on the projects costs you more than hiring someone else to make/do it. For example: DIY-ing your flowers is risky and can get expensive fast. Shop wholesale when you can… but a professional knows how to keep them fresh, and will set them up for your wedding.

5. Be clear about your budget. If vendors know up front what you can spend, they can work with you to achieve what you want.

6. Negotiate!  Lots of unexpected expenses can pop up during planning, including cake-cutting and corkage fees, or power for your DJ and photo booth. If a cost seems unreasonable, respectfully request to have it removed.

7. Book vendors together utilizing preferred vendors lists. The wedding business is filled with partnerships. Venues refer brides to certain clients, and clients refer brides to certain venues in return. Ask each vendor if they have a preferred vendors list. Once you have a few of them to compare.. you might find some of your biggest savings here! The Erin & Jake Wedding Photography preferred vendors list can be found in our client welcome book. Contact us for a pdf copy of our  EJ Wedding Client Welcome Book. 

8. Ask family & friends to give a ‘skill’ in place of a gift ( i.e. singing at your reception, playing the organ or baking a cake.) It’ll make them feel a big part of the day!

9. Hire an expert! Save money by spending it on a planner? It sounds counterintuitive, but wedding planners 1) are not shy when it comes to haggling, 2) can draw from years of experience working with brides on budgets, and 3) have working relationships with vendors — all of which can amount to big bucks shaved off your final bill.

10. Read the fine print!!! Before you sign any contracts, be sure to read the fine print very carefully. Does your venue require a certain ratio of staffers to guests? Does the caterer charge administrative fees that aren’t reflected in the original quote? Are rentals included or will you have to shell out for every table, chair, fork, and glass? Will you have to pay a flat per-person rate for booze, or just pay for whatever is consumed? Being aware of all these factors and potential expenses up front will save you from unexpected costs down the line.

11. Use coupon codes and app coupons. From table decor to thank-you cards, you can save a lot of money by searching for savings through coupon sites like CouponSherpa.com. For example, you can save 50% at Snapfish (for save-the-dates, personalized photo albums, photo prints, and thank-yous) or 40% at Michael’s, where you can snag decor items for next to nothing. In short: Before you make any online wedding purchases, do a quick search for coupon and promotional codes. “Never buy anything at Hobby Lobby, Joann or Michaels without a coupon!”

12.  Ask for Referrals Got a recommendation from a friend? Maybe they had a great experience with a vendor and you’re excited to consider that florist or baker as well. When you contact a vendor, make sure to mention the friend who referred you. There may be a referral discount (or a bonus for your friend!). For example, with Erin & Jake Wedding Photography. if you refer your friend or family member and they book, you would receive a 10% commission for the referral!

13. Budget three-fourths of your available money.  Most experts agree that the most important way to save money on a wedding is budgeting. As much as you’ll want to invest every possible cent in your special day, try budgeting only three-fourths of your available money. When unexpected costs arise, having a financial cushion will keep plans flowing smoothly. If you still come in under budget, you’ve given yourself a nice wedding gift!

14. Talent as a wedding gift Take advantage of the talents of the bridal party and other friends and family.

15. Long Engagement You have the rest of your lives to be married. You love each other and you want to get married right away, right!? Well, what if we told you a long engagement or taking your time planning could save you thousands of dollars?

16. Pay attention to the fine print. Watch for hidden costs. Make sure that surcharges like cake-cutting are in your contract, in addition to things that you might be charged for after the wedding (like unexpected guests).

17. Follow your vendors on social media.  Scoop up deals by subscribing to potential vendors’ newsletters and following them on social media sites – you can often get up to 10 – 20% off.

18. Don’t say the W word. When getting quotes from reception venues, bakeries, florists and other vendors, tell the manager that you’re planning a party or an event, but leave out the “w” word. “If you don’t mention the word ‘wedding,’ the price is often 25-30% cheaper.

 – @ej_weddings on instagram –

–  Venue  –

19. Get married in the off-season

20. Don’t get married on a Saturday! Some venues will offer small discounts for Sunday weddings. If you schedule your wedding for a Friday, or on a Holiday weekend, you can possibly save a couple thousand dollars!

21. Find a venue that doesn’t require you to use their vendors. Being able to shop around for the best vendor for your wedding will help you save tons. When you book a venue that requires you to use their vendors, your are often times locked into a lot of venue vendor hidden charges. A recent wedding we photographed in Oahu Hawaii, the couple chose their venue, Kualoa Ranch, because they were going to save significantly with outside vendors they found by shopping around. The video below is from our walk through for Kristen & Kevin this past May!

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 22. Rent a house for venue & reception Renting a home to host your wedding and or reception can be an intimate  alternative that will pad the wallet and save you money.

23. Choose a venue that doesn’t need a lot of decorations.

24.  Get married in the morning Not only would you save on the money on the venue, by getting married in the morning you would save loads on catering by having a breakfast bar!

–  Wedding Ensemble  – 

25. Dress Samples! Just like furniture stores, bridal shops have samples too! Bridal stores often have samples of wedding dresses (usually size 8 or 10) for brides to try on a selection of styles before they buy. Sometimes the retailers will sell the dresses if they are still in good condition, so be sure to ask your local bridal boutiques about them! Wedding gown samples can also be bought at trunk shows.

 – @ej_wedding on Instagram! –

26. Borrow Your Accessories  Finding a bridal look for less is no easy feat, but if you’re willing to borrow accessories over buying brand new, you’ll save a pretty penny. Ask around to your recently married friends, sisters, or cousin for pieces you can take on loan and still feel like a million bucks.

27. Do your own hair and makeup. If you’re not opting for an overly elaborate hairstyle or dramatic makeup, you can save money by doing it yourself.

28. Order your wedding gown early!  Order your gown at least eight or nine months out to avoid rush fees of as much as $500 and last-minute alterations of $100 to $300. Better yet! Shop during a designer trunk show to pay $150 to $500 less for your gown.

29. Consider renting or borrowing a dress.  Or buy one secondhand; chances are, it’s only been worn once! Look on eBay or craigslist for postings. Often times, if the bride changes her mind about her dress or has to postpone the wedding, you might be able to score a deal on a never-been-worn gown.

30. Save on shoes!  Don’t splurge on those Jimmy Choos. Explore brands that are good for the wallet yet stylish. Check out outlet malls and discount department stores, but definitely keep comfort a priority.

31. Accessorize With Family Heirlooms   Like lots of our brides, you can bring a borrowed element into your bridal look. Parents or grandparents jewelry and accessories can be beautiful and you can be sure nobody else has the same and that will save you a few dollars.

32. Check out non-wedding vendors. Amazon, Etsy, or DIY wedding party gifts.

–  Ceremony & Reception  – 

33. Bigger tables Bigger tables mean fewer centerpieces and tablecloths.

34. Reuse your ceremony chairs to your reception.  Reuse ceremony chairs at the reception. You may have to pay a moving fee, but it will still be cheaper than ordering twice as many seats.

35. Lose the Linens Instead of renting expensive linens, top your venue’s standard cotton or polyester tablecloths with a decorative runner and save about $25 per table.

36. Focus on the Head Table If you love specialty linens but can’t afford them for all of your tables, just use them for your head table and cake table. These tables will be the most prominent during your celebration — and will probably be photographed the most.

37. Kid Costs  If you plan on having kids at your wedding, ask if their meals are discounted. Caterers will often cut the cost in half or offer a separate menu with less expensive à la carte pricing.

38. Buffets are the way to go To cut staffing costs, consider a buffet. Depending on the caterer, you could save anywhere from $1,500 to $3,000 per 100 guests, and you often get more food for the amount you pay, compared with a plated dinner.

39. Choose a DJ over a live band. While a live band will definitely energize the crowd, a DJ can be just as fun and keep guests on the dance floor — for about a tenth of the price. We highly recommend Ace from Flawless Entertainment.

40. Limit Your Bridal Party Numbers Do you really need a team of bridesmaids and groomsmen? Limit the number in your bridal party to make buying bridesmaid dresses and makeup more manageable – a simple way to keep numbers low is to stick to your family.

41. Officiant There are many unexpected costs that can inflate your budget; an officiant can be one of them. If that’s the case for you, consider having your vows administered by a trusted relative or friend.

42. Have your reception at a restaurant There are a lot of restaurants that offer great pricing for hosting your reception at their location. Or favorite place so far for cost and ambiance appeal is cheese cake factory in Redondo Beach for Zarinna & Robbie’s wedding.

43. Think beyond fish, chicken and beef We have noticed a new trend last wedding season.. and it’s a tasty one! Tacos!!! Not only is this a delicious meal option, your wedding guesting will LOVE them and they will save you a TON of money. Win, win!

44. Don’t offer endless alcohol options There are a lot of money saving opportunities with alcohol at your wedding. For example, not choosing to have an open bar will save a ton alone.

 45. Cut bubbly out of your budget Let your guests toast with whatever you are drinking.

46. Skip the Shots You would save significantly not having hard alcohol served at your wedding. We shot a wedding that was gift beer from a brewery, the quests loved it and no one noticed there wasn’t hard alcohol there.

47. Think outside the box for your “Wow Factor” It might cost $8,000 to showcase amazing flowers, but only $2,000 to create a lighting concept that makes the room look equally as stunning. Be creative and remember this is your party. You can make the rules.

48. Consider Your Guest List Carefully The best way to save money on a wedding is to cut the guest list, hands down! If you have a guest count of 200 people, that’s 20 tables of 10; but by bringing it down to 150, you just eliminated five tables. That means five fewer centerpieces that you need to have, and 50 fewer meals and bar tabs.

49. Put a twist on ‘plus one’ etiquette.  Instead of giving all guests older than 18 years old a “plus one,” limit them to couples you socialize with regularly.

50. DIY Music Professional music not on top of your list? Use an iPod or Spotify playlist for your reception music, but make sure to enlist a friend to monitor it for the evening.

51. Shop Linen on sale.  Most rental companies have big linen sales a couple of times a year. Buy what you need, then resell it after the wedding.

52. Arrange for poured service at a sit-down meal vs bottles on tables. The average guest drinks half a bottle of wine, so a 150-person meal will need about 75 bottles – that goes up to 100 if guests pour their own.

53. Say no to tea and coffee at the end of the meal. Very few people will actually have it, no-one will miss it, and it can often cost hundreds if dollars! Maybe offer it at the bar so you only pay for what your guests actually drink!

54. Standing Ceremony.  If you’re getting married outdoors, consider a standing ceremony to save on seating. But bring a few chairs for elderly guests. And remember: try to keep it brief!

55. Host a Backyard Barbecue For the Rehearsal Dinner. Host a casual, backyard barbecue instead of a fancy dinner. Think about an afternoon or evening meal, catered or home-cooked, or even potluck. A budget-minded outdoor bash will give everyone a chance to relax before the big day.

56. Book group of hotel rooms in blocks to get the best deals.  Utilize group hotel reservation sites to book a block of rooms at a discount. Sites like Jetaport and Hotelplanner make it easy to save money and time when you book in bulk.

57. Get a Day-Of Coordinator Instead of a Wedding Planner.  If you find it hard to organize your wedding without a planner, then consider day-of coordinators, who will make sure your wedding day goes off without a hitch.

  –  Cake  – 

58. Cup cakes instead of cake!

59. The art of the sheet cake.  Order a small one- or two-tier cake and then supplement it with a larger sheet cake (hidden in the kitchen).

–  Flowers  –

60. Buy flowers that are in season. This not only brings the season into your event but it also cuts costs, because your florist won’t have to import any exotic or out-of-season blooms.

62. Buy Wholesale Flowers When purchasing flowers, look to wholesalers or a flower farm for the best prices.

63. Invest in a florist for the most photographed flowers like your bouquet, and DIY the rest!

64. Go flower-less For the men, consider an alternative bouquet and ask your groom to wear a non-flower buttonhole, like a pretty pocket square that accents and enhances the brides bouquet for a high-end look that will save the bank!